The Real Shidduch Crisis?

5/19/2013

A mother who is searching for a suitable match for her daughter bemoans the real crisis in finding a Shidduch in her days. She discusses the seemingly disproportionate number of boys that do not seem to be truly devoted to leading a Yeshiva lifestyle. She also writes about the focus on money over good manners when it comes to finding the right mate.
It seems that the problems we face today are not new

14 Comments

Jeff

5/19/2013 05:16:04 am

I'm not sure why you say A mother who is searching for a suitable match for her daughter bemoans the real crisis in finding a Shidduch "these days". This letter is from nearly forty years ago!

Jay

5/19/2013 07:58:50 am

where else do these Bochurim learn these things? in Lakewood everything is money and politics. your average Kollel Yungerman lives in a Brand New Five Bedroom 3 Bathroom Home with all the Luxeries=Necesities That The Good old Modern American Subarban Life Style comes with with a Honda Oddysey and Toyota camry in his Driveway. The only people i see living a simple life style in Lakewood are the Goyim and Mexicans

jay please seek help

5/19/2013 10:49:19 am

you seek help, jay is more then right

5/20/2013 04:22:49 pm

To Jay

5/19/2013 08:53:48 am

And the hardworking people

Jeff

5/20/2013 03:55:20 am

Thank you for changing your wording:)

5/20/2013 07:02:31 am

Not all Kollel Yungerleit live the American Dream, Only the Roshei Yeshivos Sons and Family

Boruch

5/21/2013 06:12:52 am

Lakewood People are The most Pampered Individuals on the Face of this earth. A Baal Habos in Brooklyn would have to Be a Multi- Millionair to live The High Life, and Geshmake Comfortable, Gashmiusdika, Suburban American Lifestyle, most Lakewooders are Accostomed To.

To PR

5/21/2013 07:44:06 am

What planet did you fall from?

5/21/2013 09:13:40 am

Planet Lakewood, Where the spoiled Lazy Self Absorbed Suburbinite Americans Live who,s entire Day Revolves around ME ME ME and More ME And My Family and My House and My Car.Than They Go around talking how their Zeida, Rebbe , or Rosh Yeshiva was Moser Nefesh and went Through The Holocost so they Can Live with every Possible Concievable Luxury and Conveniance Known To Mankind and Some Goyim and Mexicans. and By The way If Your Light bulb Goes out remember to call Menashe Miller to change it, it is a Major Crisis for the Spoiled Lakewooders who have Nothing to do all day But wait for their HuD, Wic, Food Stamps, Jersey care, Chemed , Lcrc. Lpchi chi Ki KI pO WEE AND Paxil and Prozac

Someone sounds farbisen

5/22/2013 04:47:41 am

You sound way too farbisen at the world. I think you should pick up and maybe move to another community where there are not so many self centered lazy spoiled good for nothings who have nothing to do with their day living so close to a hardworking selfless person like yourself. (since reading this garbage and posting on it, shows that you have alot to do with your time...)

To PR

5/21/2013 11:22:45 am

You have a point but on the flip side I live in a nice development (I work and rent) most of the home owners that live here are in yeshiva none of them are rosh yeshivas sons. So quit spreading bs

5/22/2013 04:31:22 am

A Bal Habos in Brooklyn would have to be a Multi Million Air To Live the Comfortable, Gashmiusdike,White Collar Brown Shoe Suburban, Strees Free,Answer Free, Resposibility free, Above The Law, ASnswer to no one, Life style That Royal Family Breed and Associates are Accustomed To In Lakewood

Fillin your own Experiance

5/22/2013 04:36:28 am

In Brooklyn The Entire Block Can Blow Up There is No One To Speak To In Lakewood Your Light Bulb Goes out Your Key chain Fell in the Drain The Cashier In Wal Mart or Govt Clerk Did Not Greet You with The Biggest Smile Major Crisis for the Spoiled Lakewood Crybaby lets go run To Menahe Miller and Write a Letter in the Shopper

The Real Shidduch Crisis?

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